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On the other hand, I am so rarely attracted to anyone that when I am, I owe it to myself to see where it leads.Only time will tell once I’m in a serious relationship how I feel about the religion aspect, but so far it’s a tertiary concern behind personality and attraction.” Too limiting “I’ve dated Jews and non-Jews.It turns out that many young adult members of the Boston Jewish community are thinking quite seriously about this question.See below for some of their responses, ranging from “no Jews” to “only Jews.” Add your own thoughts in the comments, or email me privately.And isn’t that—respect, a willingness to learn, an openness to faith—really what we, as Jews, want in our partners?” Lived it “I’ve lived with two non-Jewish partners, and those were the most observant times in my life. In contrast, I was once engaged to a Chabad woman whose father cut it off because I wouldn’t become observant enough. We’re all so many things and can connect with others on so many different planes that it’s hard for me to say dating Jews or non-Jews has had any unique effect.Saying that love is not legitimate unless it is with a Jew felt the same as saying love is not legitimate unless between a man and a woman. I also know very active Jewish people from intermarried families, so ‘keeping the kids Jewish’ is not a convincing reason to date only Jews.
” Signed a contract “Growing up, I thought having to date only Jews was in some ways repressive and oppressive.However, if that can be done in a thoughtful way with a partner who is not Jewish, I am open to that.What I do know is that I want the Jewish community to be a welcoming place to all people, couples and families, regardless of origin.I also have an additional value around ‘queering’ race, if you will.Part of me feels like interracial marriage/relationships/procreation is the solution to a lot of problems by kind of dissolving everything into gray areas, and the more people in interracial couples, the faster that will happen on a societal level.” Openness “I’ve never put a limit on falling in love, at least not a clean one.
I crave a partner who is equally strong, and I haven’t found that in Jewish men of my age. Am I likely to have children with a Jewish partner?