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There are far fewer gender differences in attraction and relationship formation that we might like to believe.’ He believes that – although many of the men who follow PUA don’t realise it, ‘approaching the art of love as a war to be won means they are ultimately exerting a misogynistic desire to control women’s behaviour.’ Preach.
If you’ve ever watched a PUA online, you’ll notice their methods are anything but natural.
The general idea is that you’re supposed to anchor your actions to someone’s emotions.
Then, when you do that action again, you can promote a response in the other person and they don’t even realise it.
‘They offer a game plan which, pickup artists claim, teaches men to quickly establish trust with a woman in order to get her into bed.
‘These scripts or pre-tested routines mean men are missing out on truly listening in for valuable social clues meaning they will fail to build a natural connection, or genuine attraction.
I love your easy to remember and use systems, such as the “4 Magic Bullets,” which has already become my default induction.Kino escalation, for example, involves gradually increasing how much you’re touching a woman, pretending to know how to ‘palm read’ to touch her hand, for instance, and going from there.One PUA site recommends escalating to ‘pull[ing] her close and say[ing] “I want to bite you”.‘Worryingly, the routines often include an escalation of suggested kino or touching, which completely disregards consent.Men are encouraged to believe that ‘no’ is just ‘token’ resistance.’ Guys, please don’t touch people unless you have consent – and for goodness sake don’t randomly bite necks.